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    Patient Care•Sep 14, 2023•5 min read

    The Tell-Show-Do Technique for Anxious Patients

    Apply the tell-show-do behavior management technique to build trust and reduce anxiety across patient populations.

    The Tell-Show-Do Technique for Anxious Patients

    A Proven, Simple Framework

    Tell-show-do is a foundational behavior management technique that builds predictability and trust. Its simplicity is its strength; it works across ages and anxiety levels.

    The Three Steps

    1. Tell the patient what you will do in plain, non-threatening language.
    2. Show the instrument or action, often on a model or a finger.
    3. Do the step exactly as described, without surprises.

    Adapting to the Patient

    Adjust the language and pace to the patient. Children, anxious adults, and patients with sensory sensitivities each benefit from tailored pacing while keeping the core structure intact.

    Practical Takeaway

    Use tell-show-do consistently: explain in plain language, demonstrate, then act exactly as described, adjusting pace to the patient without breaking the structure.

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